If I am sitting somewhere for an appointment and the person Im meeting with says, “sorry for keeping you waiting”. I make it a point to say, “I was not waiting”.

– LOVE THIS!

Agree with everything you wrote. Words link directly to your thoughts and feelings. Many fail to understand this as unfortunately being positive is less popular than being cynical.

For almost two years, I have walked into my office and greeted everyone with enthusiasm. I ask them how they are doing and their response is almost always something less than wonderful. When they ask me, I let them know I’m “great” every single time. I picked that up from my buddy Dave Hopla. He helped me understand that where I’m going starts with my thoughts and carries through with my words and then to my actions.

For me the interaction was just a reminder that I have such an amazing opportunity in life. I stay positive daily, but don’t always maximize my opportunities. I’m back to working on that.

Appreciate the support bro!

ps: this means when we play hoops, I will be even better haha 😉

There is power in the tongue. Somewhere in that mans Psyche he thought he was “wasting” time or he would not have used that word. It is very important to be mindful and positive about all we do. As humans we do “waste” a lot of time either “waiting”, “worrying”, “wondering whats next”, “anticipating the future” or “analyzing the past” instead of enjoying the very moment we are in. The man could practice being present and mindful of what hes doing and maybe his answer would have been “Not yet, just enjoying my day.” I know I make it a point to never wait or waste time. If I am sitting somewhere for an appointment and the person Im meeting with says, “sorry for keeping you waiting”. I make it a point to say, “I was not waiting”. This way I stay mindful in everything I do. It becomes a spiritual practice and can bring much more joy to this journey we call life!!!. Good post Ken!!! Love You Bro.

Or maybe you’re just making excuses. (old Jordan commercial)

The walking and fishing isn’t what I’m talking about. I found great value in my walk with Charissa. I think we all need to do things that bring us joy and clarity. I’m not in any way suggesting that those activities are a problem.

I would hope that he does enjoy fishing.

His choice of words was poor though and words are powerful.

As I stated in the post, the major issue I had was that I internally knew that regardless of his meaning of those words, I am guilty of wasting time and not maximizing my opportunities.

Too much waiting for tomorrow to be in better shape, be a better husband, brother, son, friend, and so on.

That is what I meant in reference to wasting time.